Lorraine Wright - The Wright Celebrant
Absolutely! I've got your back on this one. I can provide whatever level of support you need to make this labour of love less 'labour' and more 'love'!
To help get the creativity flowing, I provide lots of examples of vows to flick through. If you wish, you can cherry-pick your favourite bits.
I also give my couples a simple set of 'vow-writing' questions, with a suggestion that you find a quiet corner to yourself, and start jotting down any random thoughts that pop into your head for each question. Before you know it, you'll have an amazing little collection (or perhaps a big collection!) of personal, meaningful material, with some real gems that will make your vows a knock-out!
From there, you can either have a go at turning all your ideas into vows, or - if that feels a bit daunting - simply hand it all over to me, and I'll weave your own words into beautiful, flowing vows that marry well (forgive the pun) with the length and tone of your partner's vows.
And hey, don't put too much pressure on yourself - this isn't an exam to be passed. However we get there, as long as your vows express what you really want to say to your partner in this important moment, that's what counts.