Who pays for what in your wedding party?

Asking your closest loved ones to be in your wedding party is a significant responsibility. While it is certainly an honour, there is no denying that it can be a pricey affair for everyone involved.

With an array of events and expenses in the lead-up to the wedding, on the day, and even sometimes afterwards, costs add up quickly. Our latest data shows that “sticking to a budget” remains the number one stressor for couples. Close behind is “dealing with family”, which often includes managing expectations within the inner circle.

Wondering who pays for what? We have pulled the latest insights from our 2026 Wedding Industry Report to help you navigate these potentially awkward conversations with clarity.

Managing wedding costs together

The average Australian wedding party now consists of eight to ten people, including the couple themselves. With more people to consider, clear communication is vital. There are typically three ways to handle these expenses:

• The couple covers everything: This is often preferred if you have a specific, high-end vision that requires significant investment from your friends.
• The wedding party pays for themselves: This is a common approach for more casual or destination-style celebrations.
• The split approach: This is the most popular option. It allows couples to contribute what they can while keeping costs affordable for their friends.

Current trends show that wedding planning is becoming more evenly shared between partners. This collaborative spirit should extend to your bridal party. Finalise your budget early and be transparent about expectations to avoid stress later in the journey.

Wedding party attire

Outfits are one of the largest investments for any wedding party. This includes dresses, suits, and shoes.

Bridesmaid dresses

The average cost of bridesmaid attire in Australia is currently $645. However, there has been a major shift in how this is handled:

• 58% of couples now choose the same colour but allow different styles for their bridesmaids.
• This approach helps accommodate different body types and budgets, making it easier for bridesmaids to justify the cost.
• 48% of bridesmaid dresses are purchased for under $150, showing a strong trend towards affordability.

Formal wear

For the groomsmen, formal wear averages $2,102 nationally. Most people (59%) choose to purchase their suits rather than hire them. Because a suit is often a reusable investment, many couples ask their groomsmen to cover this cost or pay for the suit while the couple provides the accessories like ties or cufflinks.

Hair and makeup

Professional hair and makeup services are a staple of the wedding morning, with 85% of couples booking professional artists. The national average for these services is $992.

Traditionally, if the couple requires a specific professional look, they cover the cost. We see that 85% of couples also book a trial to ensure the look is perfect before the big day. If hair and makeup are optional, it is acceptable to ask bridesmaids to pay if they choose to use the professional service. However, personal beauty treatments like spray tans, nails, or waxing are almost always paid for by the individuals.

Hen’s and buck’s parties

These celebrations are firmly in the “wedding party pays” category. 67% of couples celebrate a hen’s or buck’s party, and these events are increasingly becoming multi-day experiences.

Standard practice is for the wedding party to organise and cover the costs of planning, decorations, and the couple’s portion of the event. Guests then pay their own way for meals, drinks, and activities. Given that many of these events now span entire weekends, it is important to keep your wedding party’s financial situation in mind during the planning phase.

There is no “right” way to split the bill, but there is a “smart” way. Most couples (69%) receive some form of financial help from family or friends to fund the wedding. Whether you are using those funds to cover your bridal party or asking them to contribute, transparency is your best tool.

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