Is it necessary or traditional to buy your wedding suppliers thank you gifts?

I wasn't sure whether this is a tradition of some kind? If so, what kind of gift would be appropriate and how much?

Question Asked: 29/04/2021

Wedding Date: 9/08/2018

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Trouvaille Weddings

(1) · Wollongong and South Coast and Southern Highlands and Surrounds

Posted: 15/03/2023

It is most defiantly not a tradition. Most vendors/planners just prefer a good honest review. That is the perfect gift. Obviously no one is going to turn down a bottle of wine or a lovely thank you card but it is not expected nor is it needed. 

All we ask for as a gift from you to us is a heartfelt review and appreciation. 

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Hidden Bridesmaid

(5) · Australia Wide

Posted: 15/02/2022

I have never been asked that question! I would say thats up to you, but we are being paid for our work and seeing a happy Bride on the day is gift enough.

Warrior Rose Events

(10) · Brisbane, Gold Coast, Toowoomba

Posted: 7/05/2021

It's not a tradition, at least not one I've heard of or considered.

A small card or note to say thanks would be a lovely gesture but certainly not expected and would honestly be felt as going above and beyond.

Overall, not a tradition and not necessary but appreciation is always valued by any supplier/vendor :)

Solstice Events

(9) · Sydney |Wollongong | South Coast | Southern Highlands | Hunter Valley | Central Coast

Posted: 7/05/2021

Hi there! Definitely not! Depending on your relationship with your supplier you may want to get them a gift to say thank you however most wedding suppliers just would love a great review :D A few samples of gifts, could be a bottle of wine or just nice little trinkets like bath salts, tea, candles. One of my clients just sent me a bottle of tequila (because she knows I love margaritas) and a beautifull card but as I said it is not necessary or traditional to do so. I hope that helps!

EBB Events

(3) · Melbourne & Australia Wide

Posted: 7/05/2021

Great question!  I would certainly not expect a gift from any of my couples (of course a bottle of wine is never frowned upon as far as I'm concerned ??)

In my experience, I find an honest, heartfelt review is thanks enough.  

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