I want to involve my step mum in my wedding, but I'm not sure what to do?

I agree with others, there are many ways to involve your step mum and it would be nice to acknowledge what she has done for you. My first thought was to let her do a reading at the ceremony. On the other hand maybe your biological mum wants to do a speech during the reception? When you girls are getting ready in the morning, could you have both mums with you for hair & make-up also? If you or your fiancee do a speech, make sure you mention your step mum as well as your biological mum.

Wishing you a magical wedding! Simone from Vow Factor Weddings and Events

Hey there, I know it will be tricky when your wedding plan comes down to the divorced and remarried family situation. Firstly of all, You don't want your mum feel like her role has been taken, because that is all mums' dreams. She wants to be part of your wedding plan, such as selecting wedding gown with you. And of course you don't want your step mum feel has been left out either (I guess you two have a good relationship, otherwise you won't be that struggle.) Ask her opinion about your wedding, make her feel more be needed. Secondly, try to avoid any awkwardness, it all comes to you how to balance the role on the day. Be confident and authentic to yourself and both your parents and stepparents, talk to them how do you feel and your plan or arrangement, I believe they will understand. How do they react on the wedding day, it really depends on the relationship between your mum and step mum, and you will be the KEY factor. If comes down to the detail plan, you really need more efforts to make your wedding goes smooth, such as how they will be seated in ceremony and your reception. I hope it will be helpful for your scenario, wish you all the best and good luck to your wedding. xoxo

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Dear Bride to be,

That's so nice of you to want to have your step mum be part of your special day. Without knowing the type of wedding you are having, there are many ways you can involve her on the day. It can be as simple as having her do a reading or a blessing at your ceremony, to greeting family members and guests whilst handing out your ceremony booklets at the church or garden ceremony, to being able to say a joint speech with your father as she did help raise you with him. Also it would be a lovely touch if she had her makeup and hair done with you and the Bridal party. But in saying all this, communication is the key and if you sat down with her and ask her if she wanted to be involved and to what capacity, she would probably just be happy that you asked.

Another thought is, just in case your bio mother becomes upset or feels left out, you could allocate a role for both of them to do together, then they are on equal grounds, no one is more important than the other and both are happy to feel included....Congratulation and best wishes for your special day... xx

Step moms can be just as special as your own mum. I think let her know just what she means to you as well as let your own mum, know just what she means to you as well. As this will help them both understand what parts you want them for in helping you plan your wedding. Hope this has helped you. Treena from Treen Of Hearts