How big should our wedding party be?

Hi,

Congratulations on getting engaged! 

I believe this is a very personal question and it is individual to each bride. I questioned myself on my own wedding about this a number of times. The answer is more who you want to be up with you on your day. Whether it is family, friends or a mixture of both. It is your wedding so there is no wrong answer as long as it is an answer you are happy with.

note: it is nobodys decision except for yours and your partners and you hopefully should not feel pressured by anyone. If this does occur I can offer some helpful tips.

I wish you all the happiness!

Your wedding party can be as big or as small as you like. It should be made up of the people closest to you whether that be friends or family and the most supportive of you as weddings can be overwhelming if you don't have the right support.

As with a lot of things for a wedding, this is entirely up to you! You can have as many or as few bridesmaids and groomsmen as you like and its a completely personal choice. Some things to consider might be: Who would you want around you in the morning of your wedding day and getting ready with you? Who do you trust to be supportive as you plan your wedding? Do you want a lot of people around you to make it really fun or exciting? Or would you prefer to just have your absolute best friend or family member there to help you stay calm? 

The larger the bridal party, the larger will your expenses be, depending on who will pay for what, if you decide to pay for everything for your bridesmaids and groomsmen, or if they will contribute financially. These are the most typical costs in relation to bridal parties: outfits, shoes, jewellery, hair and make up, flowers (bouquets & buttonholes) and gifts.

In the end, pick who you like, but don't feel compelled to invite someone into your bridal party because you think you SHOULD. This often only leads to stress and disappointment if that person does not support you in the way that you need.