How does the idea of an unplugged wedding go over with guests?

If the couples give the guests the heads up in the invitation & the Celebrant clearly articulates the reason why the couple have chosen to do an unplugged wedding, then the guests are usually understanding. 

I have actually done a ceremony where the bride and groom specifically requested that no photos or videos be taken during the ceremony and phones were to be left at the door. It was great...no interuptions and we were able to give our full attention to the couple.

Fine if everyone know that is the wish of the bride and groom that the gusts enjoy the ceremony. 

Of course you will always get a few who will it ignore the request. :) 

This is going to sound a bit rough but 'Who cares?' It's your wedding day and you should have it the way you want it and not to be burdened and tugged between loyalties. If that's what you want - have it. It's more and more common and the guests will just have to appreciate your requests. They will most likely get to enjoy the day better.

Throw out the script book… this is all about you. Choose your own adventure. It’s your day so you get make all the choices so that it suits your personality, your preferences down to every last particular – just the way you want it. 

Have your wedding the way you dreamed it to be!

These days guests are very understanding! Some couples ask that the whole ceremony is unplugged, while some ask that entrace of the bride/bridal party be unplugged. As a celebrant I always word it in a nice way that encourages the guests to present in the moment and that it's much nicer for the couple to see the eyes of their guests, rather than faces behind a camera. 

I have done an unplugged wedding and guests actually really enjoyed it, they could just sit back and enjoy the whole ceremony.  

I always ask for guests to turn off phones, and at the couples request, ask the guests not to take photos during the ceremony. Many guests use iPads for photos these days and guests behind them have their view blocked of the ceremony. Couples do request more often these days for no photos to be taken. It is very rare for guests to ignore the couples request

Depends on the age and cultural aspects of the group and also the progressiveness of the couple. Weddings are for the couple first and foremost, for the family second and for friends third. A wedding ceremony should suit your personality, be very special and tailored just for you.

At the start of nearly every wedding I now ask for all phones and camera's to be: "Put away so you can be truly present in this moment and to let our incredable team capture the day" . Most people expect that these days :) 

The unplugged wedding option is becoming more popular with couples and mostly guests are very respectful of your wishes.  I always ensure that I announce early in the ceremony that the couple would like guests to relax and enjoy the special time and assure them that professional images will be provided. Sometimes they “forget” and in this instance it’s better to just continue and maybe make a quick reminder at the conclusion not to post photos on social media. 

Its your wedding so it’s your choice! 

Good luck and best wishes for your special day 

Robyn Freer

Abbys Way Celebrations