However, my partner does not. Is there any way I could combine the two to keep both parties happy? I want some Catholic elements, but not the whole service.
MadeleineQuestion Asked: 10/09/2021 Wedding Date: 24/10/2022
Port Stephens, everywhere in Australia(2) Posted: 9/10/2021
Celebrants are trained to give you as a couple the beautiful ceremony with all the elements that you want on your special day, including any religious components It is a ceremony to join you and your loving partner as well as two families, but it is your ceremony, so you and your partner must agree on all of the ceremony and sign this off with your Celebrant. If your Mum feels including religious elements in your ceremony is not enough for her, perhaps you and she can do something religious such as go to Mass together the weekend before your marriage. Wishing you a wonderful cermony and a very happy life with your partner.
Answered by: 9 Experts
You can absolutely include religious elements in a civil marriage ceremony. You may choose to open with the Lord's Prayer, have a Bible passage or other blessing read by a loved one, or take part in a ritual such as a ring ceremony. You and your partner could opt to recite the traditional Catholic wedding vows, alongside the mandatory legal vows - which your celebrant will explain to you!
SA State Wide
I feel as it's your special day and should be a reflection of what the two of you want.
As a Celebrant I would encourage the two of you to consider that your married life will be filled with compromises so maybe this is the start of how you both negotiate this particular compromise.
I think if you want some Catholic elements then you can incorporate them and invite your partner to include something that he would like.
Your planning can then be a win / win for all and you can both enjoy the day equally. xx
Perth, Margaret River and South West WA
Incorporating both a Catholic Priest and an Authorised Marriage Celebrant is accomplishable, however, depending on if you are going to get married in a Catholic church setting, you will need to ask permission from the Priest of that church if they are happy to have this arrangement.
Also establish who will be responsible for the legals to the marriage (either the Celebrant or the Priest)?
Sometimes it can be very challenging to please everyone involved
Its always very hard to make everybody else happy when it comes to your wedding. It is a day for you both to enjoy and make your promises to each other. A celebrant can add many things into the cermony such as blessings and prayers. The right celebrant can bring different elements to a ceremony that hopefully will satisfy you both on your day.
Melbourne and surrounding areas
Even though I am not a Religious Celebrant I have no problem incorporating religious readings or prayers into a ceremony. I have even shared a ceremony with a Baptist Minister in his church, who once the couple were married said a prayer. The groom was a Hindu and the bride was an Indonesian Christian so really what the couple want in their ceremony is important and they are the clients. In answer to the Bride's question if Mum wants a Catholic Priest to attend or even share part of the ceremony I have no problem with that. The difficulty may be locating a Catholic Priest who is willing to leave his church and share the ceremony with a celebrant.
Good luck with your search - Trevor
New South Wales
Having Catholic elements in your wedding ceremony is absolutely possible without having a Catholic priest as your officiant. As a Catholic myself, I am very comfortable with including prayers and religious readings within a ceremony for my couples if they want it.
I have married Catholics who would have married in a church but can't because they are divorcees, but their faith was important to them and they wanted some of their faith included. Also one couple explained to me that the reason why it has taken them so long to get married was because they hadn't found a civil celebrant who shared and understood their same deep faith which was very important to them.
Similarly I have married couples who had their minister/pastor present to do a small part within their ceremony as well. So if you know of a Catholic priest who will be willing and happy to 'share the stage' (so to speak) with your celebrant for your wedding. Hope this helps you and all the best.
Melbourne and surrounds, the wider State of Victoria and the rest of Australia
The wonderful thing about having a civil ceremony officiated by a civil celebrant, means you have the flexibility to craft your ceremony the way you like it. This means you can include different components/people into the service. This should help you keep everyone happy and ensure your day is filled with lasting memories for everyone. Happy planning Dean
Melbourne, All Suburbs, Mornington Peninsula, Geelong, Yarra Valley
Yes you can. I am Catholic and undestand the issue.
I have performed many weddings without priest where i do all the usual catholic prayers and feel cofortable doing them.
I have also performed several catholic weddings where the priest attended and did certain parts only of the ceremony and i did the rest.
YOu will need to locate a priest who is willing to do that, that will be your challenge.
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