5 don’ts for choosing your wedding shoes
They may not be the main event, but wedding shoes play a quiet, crucial role in how the day feels. From designer heels (hello, Jimmy Choo!) to second-hand gems, whatever your style or spend, there are a few things to keep in mind before making the final call on choosing your wedding shoes.
After all, your wedding shoes are about more than style. The right pair supports every step: down the aisle, across the dance floor, and into the early hours. And while they might only appear in a handful of photos, they’ll quietly shape every moment you’re in them.
VENUE: Ballara Receptions
Here are five common missteps to avoid when it comes to choosing your wedding shoes.
1. Don’t skip the wear-in period
Even the most exquisite pair can cause discomfort if worn straight from the box. New shoes often need time to soften, stretch, or mould to your movement. Wearing them in (during fittings, around the house, or on short outings) can help prevent pressure points and blisters.
Your wedding shoes should include a dress rehearsal of their own, so you know they’ll carry you through the day with ease.
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2. Don’t ignore your setting
Grass, sand, cobblestones, polished floors: different venues call for different footwear considerations. Thin heels may sink into lawns, while delicate fabrics can be damaged outdoors. Think practically about your ceremony and reception locations. A refined block heel or wedge may be a smarter choice for outdoor settings.
Choosing your wedding shoes to suit your venue means you won’t be wobbling down the aisle or tiptoeing around puddles.
3. Don’t choose height over stability
Heels can be beautiful, but if they’re too high to walk in confidently, they’ll quickly become a distraction. Consider how long you’ll be on your feet and how comfortable you are in elevated shoes. A lower heel, a platform, or a fashion-forward flat can offer just as much impact with far less stress.
Confidence should be the goal: height is optional.
When the shoe fits, and the adventures begin. On site at The Grove Gippsland.
4. Don’t forget a second pair
Many couples opt for an outfit change; the same logic applies to shoes. A second pair – whether dainty flats, cushioned sandals, or stylish sneakers – can offer welcome relief after hours of standing. Just make sure they’re packed, labelled, and easy to access. If choosing your wedding shoes involves two looks, plan accordingly so the switch is smooth and stress-free.
5. Don’t overlook the small comforts
Sometimes it’s the little things that make the biggest difference. Gel inserts, blister patches, heel guards, and grip pads can transform a good pair into a great one. Heel protectors like Our Little Shoe Secret are especially handy for uneven terrain.
Choosing your wedding shoes is only half the story: preparing for how they’ll wear throughout the day is the rest.
Lester Shoes, crafting men’s boots and shoes with a traditional touch.
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At the end of the day, the best wedding shoes are the ones that let you forget about them. Whether they’re barely visible beneath a ballgown or peeking out from a tailored suit, the right pair will feel like an extension of your own style and energy.
These heels weren’t made for sitting. Spotted: at The Boat House Venue.
And while it’s tempting to focus solely on aesthetics, practicality and comfort matter just as much – if not more. This is one of the few accessories you’ll truly feel all day long. So take your time. Consider the details. Plan for reality, not just the photos.
Because when your wedding shoes are right, you won’t be thinking about them. You’ll be thinking about the moment, and that’s exactly how it should be.
Explore our curated collection of recommended wedding shoes for him and her at Easy Weddings.
