The art of delivering a bride’s wedding speech

Let’s get this out of the way early; sure, historically, brides weren’t encouraged to make speeches. But as we buck old school trends, the quiet brides are now a thing of the past. So, instead, we’re focusing on what the bride should say in the bride’s speech.

A bride’s speech is a powerful moment. It’s a chance to express gratitude, share your love story from your perspective, and acknowledge the people who helped bring your day to life. Whether you’re confident in the spotlight or a little speech-shy, here’s how to master the art of delivering a meaningful, memorable wedding speech.

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The bride speech: what is it?

The bride’s speech, typically, comes at the end of the speeches, so that it can have a lasting impact on the guests. As the bride’s speech is not a traditional wedding speech, there is no formal order or expectations that come with it. You might see this as an opportunity to have fun and get creative with your speech, or if you are stuck for ideas you can use the following format below as a guide.

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Start with gratitude

Begin with a warm thank you to your guests for being there, especially those who have travelled far. Then it’s time to move onto your family, your new in-laws, and your bridal party. Think about who else helped you in the lead up to the wedding day, and make sure you give them a little nod.

You don’t need to thank everyone individually (leave some for the joint speech, if you’re doing one), but a few heartfelt acknowledgements go a long way.

A story or two (but no more!)

Funny or cute stories are great in a bride speeches, but leave the embarrassing anecdotes for the best man. You could talk about how you met, when you realised that they was the one, or when you got engaged. You could also tell a funny story from the engagement party or the run up to the wedding.

You can talk a little about your thoughts and feelings on love, marriage, or being a wife, and there are plenty of funny poems or readings about partners, and marriage that you can turn to if you can’t find the words yourself.

Remember: Not too many inside jokes. You don’t want to make anyone feel left out or that they’re not in on it.

Speak to Your Partner

This is your chance to share a few personal words with your new husband, wife, or partner. Reflect on your journey, what they mean to you, and maybe even what you’re most excited about for the future. It doesn’t need to be overly sentimental if that’s not your style: humour, honesty, and real-life anecdotes are often the most touching parts.

A few words written from the heart and not overly rehearsed are the most beautiful. Don’t know what to write? It’ll come naturally once you put pen to paper.

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Stay true to you.

Not a fan of public speaking? Keep it short and sweet. A few well-crafted minutes are more impactful than a long list of thanks. Love a bit of drama or storytelling flair? Lean in. Your speech doesn’t have to be perfect—it just has to sound like you.

Our tips to really nailing it

• Write it down: Even if you plan to speak from the heart, having notes can be a great safety net.

• Practice, out loud: Run through it a few times to check the timing and flow.

• Take a breath: Nerves are normal. Pause, smile, and soak in the moment.

• Have a glass of water (or champagne!) nearby: It helps with nerves and keeps your voice clear.

• Have a drink but not too many. You don’t want to be a little slurry down the mic.

Bride’s speech FAQs

1. Does the bride have to give a speech?
Nope! It’s entirely optional. Traditionally, brides haven’t spoken at weddings, but in modern celebrations, it’s becoming more common—and encouraged. If you feel inspired to speak, go for it. If not, that’s perfectly okay too.

2. When does the bride give her speech?
The bride’s speech can happen during the traditional speech segment of the reception, typically after the groom or in a joint speech. Some couples choose to speak together, while others alternate. Just be sure it’s on the run sheet so the MC can introduce you.

3. What should a bride include in her speech?
A good bride’s speech usually includes:

• A warm welcome and thank-you to guests

• Acknowledgements of parents, family, and key people

• A heartfelt message to your partner

• A toast to love, the future, or your guests

4. How long should a bride’s speech be?
Keep it between 3 to 5 minutes. Long enough to be meaningful, but short enough to hold attention and keep the vibe light.

5. Can the bride and groom do a joint speech?
Absolutely! Joint speeches are a lovely way to share the moment and split the pressure. Some couples alternate lines or paragraphs, while others take turns thanking different people.

6. What if I’m nervous about public speaking?
That’s totally normal. Practice beforehand, keep a copy of your notes or speech handy, and remember—this is a room full of people who love and support you. Keep it short and simple if that helps.