Does it matter if you don't have an engagement party?

Hi there,

It is not necessary to have an engagement party if all your close ones are all over the country. Some people choose not to do it due to funds or similar situation like yours. It really depends if you and your partner want to have this occasion or maybe could even just get some close friends or relative to have a small dinner.

Hope my advice helped you in however your decision turns out to be. Do contact me if you would like further assistance and advice :)

Warmetst regards,

Sharon

Spring Dove Events

Nowadays all these decisions can be whatever the individuals involved want, there isn't as much tradition and specific ways to do things anymore. Especially with your families all over the country it would be tricky for them to fly for an engagement party and then the wedding, so the decision is completely up to you. If you had an engagement party, you would most likely then hold your wedding off to allow everyone the time to save money / arrange time off to allow them two trips for the engagement and then the wedding.

An engagement party can also be to either invite a larger number of people that you wouldn't necessarily invite to the wedding or to have the engagement party in one part of the country and the wedding in another so everyone gets to attend either celebration. If you think some of your guests would struggle to travel or afford to fly to your wedding having an engagement party in that part of the country could be a great compromise for them and you.

Otherwise, it sounds to me like you had impromptu engagement celebrations with both your families in the fuss made after announcing your engagement so I'd suggest just go with concentrating on the wedding.

I hope this helps you make your decision. Good luck.

Jodii & Cassie

K.I.S.S. Weddings

Hi there,

Congratulations on your recent engagement!

You most definitely do not need to have an engagement party. I'd say that around 50% of my clients don't. It can be a nice way to have ebpveryone get together, ahead of the wedding, and celebrate with you. Though, you can do that individually with family and friends. The most important thing for you, is to know that everyone is happy for you and excited about your next chapter. You don't need to have an engagement party to know that, especially if budget is tight.

If you need any help or advice with your wedding plans, please get in touch.

Kelly-Louise

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Hi,

Engagement parties are not essential, many couples decide to have an engagement party to bring both sets of families together to celebrate your exciting news. And others opt for just the wedding. So it all depends on you and if you feel you need an engagement party to celebrate with your family and friends.

I hope I have helped with your decision, all the best for your wedding. If you need any further assistance or have anymore questions please do contact me.

Thanks & Kind Regards Simone - Elegant Dream Wedding & Events