Should we get them bleeped or will guests not get offended
Question Asked: 11/07/2025
Wedding Date: 9/08/2018
(442) · Melbourne & Surrounding Areas, Mornington Peninsula & Yarra Valley/Dandenong
Posted: 21/08/2025
Answered by: 22 Experts
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Absolutely, that's a key part of our planning. Whether you have a live singer or a DJ, we always use clean versions of every song to avoid any swearing.
This approach ensures that all of your guests, from grandparents to young children, can feel comfortable and enjoy the music without you having to worry.
Thanks for your question!
Weddings are a special event with lots of extended friends, family and often children present, so we find it appropraite to change out any swearing or sexual content.
(34) · Blue Mountains and surrounds | Sydney and surrounds | Macarthur Region and surrounds
Posted: 14/07/2025
As a DJ, I always endevour to play clean edits at weddings. This means any explicit language is missing or replaced with other words.
If you decide to have songs with the explicit words later in the evening, after guests have been drinking and dancing for a while, usually no one minds. Just enjoy the music you love and don't worry about the rest!
- Kate
White Clover Weddings
Hi! It all depends on your crowd! You definitely want to remove any points of tension from your special day.
I always check in with my couples to see if it is a potential issue.
When singing live - I always adjust the lyrics to eliminate offensive words.
When DJ-ing - I choose the non-explicit versions when available (people singing along will sing whatever they like)
Top level DJ Decks have a 'censor' button which can remove any swear word without losing timing.
If you are worried about it, mention it to your DJ before booking to confirm their equipment has this feature.
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Great question! If you have a song for a big moment like Bridal Party Entrance into reception with swear words and you are worried there might be sensitive ears I would go for a censored version, Most DJ's will have acess and if sung live this is an easy fix. You can still have your fav song but not have any side eyes from nana.
However, If they are song requests for the dance floor I wouldn't stress so much. In our experience things are much more relaxed later in the night.
Great question! For wedding sets, I usually recommend playing clean or radio-edited versions of any songs that have swearing—just to keep things classy and make sure everyone from kids to grandparents feels comfortable on the dancefloor. Most guests won’t notice the edits, but they will notice if something feels a bit too full-on in the moment.
That said, it’s totally up to you! If there are any songs you really want played in their original form or have strong opinions about, just let me know and we’ll tailor the set to suit your vibe.
Looking forward to a great night!
Cheers,
Hayden
As a wedding DJ, you’ll want to keep the event classy, fun, and enjoyable for all ages. When it comes to songs with swearing, it's usually a good idea to avoid them at a wedding, unless the couple specifically asks for a more relaxed, informal vibe and is okay with it.
Hi!
I personally find that most couples don't even take note on swear words for songs.
Most typical wedding songs don't usually have swear words but I would suggest that if it isn't an offensive swear word it shouldn't matter too much!
You could always ask your musician to substitute it, or if it's a song being played then there's always 'clean' versions out there if you really wanted! :)
If it's a song that is special to the two of you then let it play how you know it! Fuck it, it's your wedding! ??
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Great question!
When it comes to songs with swearing, it really depends on the vibe you’re going for and the crowd you’re catering to. Some guests may find explicit lyrics fun and fitting for a lively atmosphere, while others might prefer to avoid them entirely, especially during more formal moments.
To keep things smooth, here are a few options:
1.Edit the Songs: If you're concerned about potentially offending anyone, you can always ask your DJ to use radio-friendly or clean versions of any explicit tracks. DJs are great at mixing these versions seamlessly, so it won’t impact the overall vibe.
2.Discuss with Your DJ: A good wedding DJ will always be able to read the room and adjust accordingly. If you're not sure how your guests will react, have a chat with your DJ beforehand about your preferences, and they'll handle the rest.
At Melbourne Entertainment Company, we work with you to ensure the music fits your style and vibe, while keeping everything comfortable for your guests. If you'd like, you can even put together your own playlist of must-have songs, and we’ll make sure it’s played seamlessly on the night, no surprises, just the vibe you want.
For inspiration, here’s a helpful guide to the Best Dance Floor Songs that always keep the party fun: https://melbourneentertainmentco.com.au/100-best-wedding-dance-floor-songs-music/
The goal is to ensure everyone enjoys themselves, so don’t hesitate to discuss any concerns with your DJ to make sure the day is exactly what you envision!