Is there a polite way to address that no +1s will be given?

Hello,

Yes, adding guest names to your invitation will certainly solve this.

For example you could word this by saying: "John and Guest" or "John and Partner".

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Cheers,

Papermarc

With the cost of weddings being high, or even just wanting a smaller intimate wedding, it is always a tricky situation when inviting guests without a plus 1. However, it is totally acceptable and your guests should respect your wishes on your wedding day!

We think the best way to tackle this (without being too direct) is to add a line on your RSVP stating "X seats have been reserved in your honour".

You may also then want to add the following

X of 1 accept.

X of 1 decline.

If you still have the cheeky guest that tries to change the numbers on the RSVP, then maybe it is a case by case basis that you allow or deny, but it is your day and you need to do what you're comfortable with.

All the best with it.

xx BP

Great question!

Putting your guest names on each invitation certainly helps with this.

In the past, some couples have also asked me to write "strictly invites only" on the bottom of their wedding invitations.

However no matter how bluntly you word it, there will be some people who won't get it and will add their own +1 to the RSVP. 

The best way to mitigate any issues is to talk with these guests directly so there's no confusion.

Putting guest names on the invitation, and clearly marking "plus partner" (on the ones that are allowed to bring someone) will definitely help though!

Let me know if you have any other questions :)

Cheers,

Lava @LavaStationery