do you think having male strippers at my hens is cheating?

Every realtionship is different. If you are worried put yourself in his shoes, how would you feel?

Communication is key! Just discuss it with your partner, he may be okay with certain aspects of it. 

Hi there, this is between you and your partner.

most wouldn't think it's cheating, but then again everyone is different.

if you communicate together and chat about it you will out how the other feels about it, then you can go from there.

From my personal experience I didn't get a stripper, not because I thought it was cheating but because it wasn't really my thing.

Then again some of my best friends have had them and it can be just abit of fun and entertainment.

good luck ??

This is a good conversation to have with your Fiancee! Seeing a stripper is not cheating to most people but you aren't marrying most people, so its important to get the answer straight between you as a couple before the party day! Maybe having a stripper is fine, but touching is not - boundaries are important in every relationship after all!

Strippers at Hens parties are more about the giggles and squealing than about something seriously sexual and there is usually no intent involved so you should be fine. If you or your future Hubby are not comfortable though then I'm sure you wont miss it - chat to your ladies and tell them how you and your Fiancee feel about it & ask them to respect your wishes.

Just remember though - if it's good for the Goose, it's good for the Gander so also ask what the plan is for the Bucks Party! :P

Happy Planning! xx

Watching a guy perform a strip show is not cheating at all.  It's all in good fun and shouldn't be taken so seriously.

As long as you are honest with your partner about what you do, then you have done nothing wrong. Ask your partner if he would like to set boundaries as to what you can and can't-do (ie. touching etc).    Quite often the performer will be assuming you want special attention because you are the Hen.  If you don't want that attention, just pull the performer aside before the show (Or have the organiser let them know), that you do not want to be touched.  The performers should always respect your wishes.