is a bali hens night a little over the top?? am i asking too much of my bridesmaids?

This night is about you! You do what you feel will be the best way to celebrate.

It can depend where people are finanacially, getting time off work and if they have kids that need to be looked after. But with lots of notice and a reminder of the importance to you I imagine mojority of the bridesmaids would make it work

This is definmitely a discussion to have with a few different people where you need to be really clear on your expectations. Talk to your Fiancee, talk to the Bridesmaids and talk to the people that you NEED to have at your Hens Party - are you really close to your Mum and can't imagine celebrating without her? The most important questions to answer would be:

• Who will pay for what? Are you going to pay for yourself? Will you or the Bridesmaids subsidise anything as a gift or will every person pay their own way?
• Who do you really want to be there? Bridesmaids, Sisters, Mum, Crazy Aunty Jane... Can they all get time off work? Can they all afford it?
• Will anyone very important not be able to attend if you go overseas and will you be disappointed if you can't share this with them?
• How long do you want to go for & what would you like to to do while there?
• What are the Bucks doing? Do they also want to go away and, if so, can the couples involved afford both?

If you have had this discussion with all the important people and everyone is happy with the answers then GO FOR IT! Live it up and celebrate your Final Fling Before The Ring in whatever style makes you happy!

If there is any hesitation then why not look at a big bash a little closer to home? Plan a weekend away with lots of activities, cocktails, eye candy and sparkle! Celebrate with your Besties and most importantly, have an AMAZING time no matter what you do!

Happy Planning! xx

That totally depends on whether your friends can afford it or not.  

Obviously, if your friends are always strapped for cash, it's a very big ask.  But if they are financially comfortable I say go for it. Maybe it's a discussion you should have with them before you make a decision.

Good luck.