do i choose who attends my hens? or is it the bridesmaid who plans it

The Bride to Be of course gets to choose who comes to her ultimate send off. After all it's all about having the most special people in your life to celebrate with you that truly makes it rememberable. We always encourage the Maid of Honour to sit down and talk to the Bride well in advance of plans getting underway to establish a list of who should be there and also get comfortable with any no go zones.

Totally up to how you would like it!
If you want your bridesmaids to plain them let them run with it, but if you have certain things you want let them know to make the night best for you!

Treat yourself girl xx

Aha! Now that all depends! You should definitely be the one that decides on which guests attend, simply put your list together and give to your Maid of Honour to organise - BUT, if your Bridesmaids are doing their jobs properly there should be a few 'extra attendees' that you have no say in at all such as your Stripper( really, this isn't optional!), your Topless Waiters(mmm, not really optional either - after all, who will pour your drinks otherwise?!), and your Lifedrawing Model(great option if you don't feel like a stripper!). Basically, you shouldn't have to lift a finger other than producing the list!! 

Great Question!! The Bridemaids are traditionally responsible for actually inviting the guests but the Bride definitely has a say in who's coming along to her special celebration!! Our best suggestion is to grab some bubbly & have a girls night to put ideas together, come up with a guest list & have lots of giggles looking at Hens Packages that sound like fun!

Happy Planning! xx

Dear Bride,

It is customary for pre wedding celebrations to be organised by the Bridal Party with input from the bride, hence you do have a say in who attends. 

Good luck and all the best for your upcoming wedding.

It is your hen's party so you should definitely decide who is attending.  

I would suggest that you provide your bridesmaid with the guest list and she should take it from there and do all the organising for you.   Good luck and enjoy!