This time, it’s personal: How Kelly Della Bosca personalises ceremonies for each couple

Today’s couples are looking for something outside of just a traditional wedding ceremony. They want things to feel just them. Something against the status quo, an element of personalisation that allows the couple to bring their own love story to life.

For celebrant Kelly Della Bosca, that level of personalisation isn’t an add-on. It’s the foundation of her business.

With a reputation for vibrant, heartfelt ceremonies, particularly multicultural celebrations, Kelly’s approach offers valuable insight into where the ceremony space is heading and what today’s couples truly value.

Personalisation beyond the templated ceremony

You’ve been hearing about personalised ceremonies all over, it’s becoming a bit of a buzzword. But Kelly’s interpretation runs much deeper than swapping out names in a script.

Her process begins with listening. Couples complete a detailed questionnaire designed to uncover not only how they met, but who they are. Getting to know the couples to their core: their values, their shared history, the role their families and communities have played in their journey.

From there, the ceremony evolves as a collaborative effort.

“We communicate back and forth until they are happy,” she explains. “It isn’t only the couple that I am portraying — it’s the journey they have experienced and the role their loved ones play along that journey. It’s a celebration for everyone.”

For industry professionals, this highlights an important shift: ceremonies are no longer a formality. They are the emotional centrepiece of the wedding day.

Multicultural weddings: Respect, research, and representation

Australian weddings are increasingly involving people from diverse backgrounds. With this, celebrants and wedding suppliers should possess the ability to respectfully blend cultures, traditions, and faiths.

Having lived abroad for 20 years, Kelly brings lived cultural awareness to her ceremonies. But more importantly, she brings curiosity.

“I always feel excited when a couple wants to implement cultural elements,” she says. “It allows me to learn about new rituals and incorporate them in a way that reflects their culture and beliefs.”

In a recent ceremony, six distinct rituals to honour both partners’ cultural and religious backgrounds were part of the celebration and ceremony. Kelly made it happen, and the result was a seamless blend of cultures that were important to the newlyweds.

“At the end of the day, a wedding brings two families together as one. It’s important both families feel honoured in a way that is special to them.”

Modern ceremonies that still honour tradition

Couples often struggle to balance modern aesthetics with cultural or familial expectations. Kelly is armed with advice for this very scenario: create a safe space for your expression.

“Weddings are a way to express your love, but it is also important to express your cultural identity and beliefs with your loved ones and community.”

Encouraging couples to integrate meaningful rituals — rather than dilute them — ensures the ceremony feels authentic, not performative.

For the wider industry, this aligns with a broader trend: couples want ceremonies that reflect who they are now, not just what weddings have traditionally looked like.

An ongoing support for the couples

From vow writing to pre-ceremony nerves, Kelly’s role extends far beyond standing at the front with a microphone.

Many couples will feel overwhelmed when it comes to writing their vows. It is both intimate and intimidating. Kelly focuses on providing guidance through structured scripts, offering samples as thought starters, and then encouraging couples to pen theirs from the heart.

“Write what makes your relationship unique to you,” she advises. “Incorporate your personality.”

On the wedding day itself, preparation is key. Arriving an hour early allows her to create calm, ensure everything is set up, and reassure couples that they are supported.

She even encourages practical grounding techniques. Staying active before the ceremony or listening to pre-ceremony music to settle nerves is a tried and tested method that she relies on for anxious couples.

This holistic support model demonstrates how celebrants can position themselves not just as service providers, but as emotional anchors.

The ability to “read the room”

One of the most common pieces of feedback Kelly receives is her ability to “read the room”, a skill that can’t be templated and often can’t be learned. A natural ability.

From the initial consultation through to the ceremony itself, she views the process as a shared journey. That connection allows her to intuitively adjust tone, pacing and delivery in real time.

For industry professionals, this underscores something often overlooked: technical compliance and paperwork are essential… But emotional intelligence is what elevates a ceremony.

The future of the ceremony

When asked what she hopes couples remember years later, Kelly’s answer is telling.

“My goal is to ensure couples feel proud of their ceremony — that they achieved what they set out to create.”

That sense of ownership is increasingly important in a market where couples want agency over every element of their day. For venues, planners and fellow celebrants, Kelly’s approach reflects broader shifts within the industry:

• Ceremonies are becoming more culturally layered.
• Couples want collaborative processes.
• Emotional storytelling is central to the guest experience.
• Authenticity outweighs tradition for tradition’s sake

In a wedding market where experience matters more than ever, celebrants like Kelly Della Bosca remind us that the ceremony isn’t just the beginning of the day — it’s the moment that defines it.

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