Want to make your wedding day a memorable one, but fancy a change of scenery? Somewhere unique to create memories with your partner and loved ones? Well, a destination wedding could be exactly what you’re after.
Now yes, this is a fantastic option, however, many people are often put off by several common misconceptions surrounding destination weddings.
We’re here to tell you that you don’t need to worry. In this article, we’ll debunk common destination wedding myths and offer useful tips for planning a destination wedding that’s unforgettable.
Myth 1: People won’t attend
Reality: One of the big worries for couples booking weddings abroad is that people simply won’t attend. Sure, some of the people you invite might face challenges, like getting time off work or lack of money. But, real talk, most people will be over the moon and look at it as a holiday that’s all planned out for them.
The most helpful thing you can do is to give guests plenty of notice, offer all of the travel guidance they might need and try, and help with any questions they have. This way, you can be sure that your friends and family have all the pieces of the puzzle they need to join you on your destination wedding in Fiji or some other paradise.
Myth 2: Destination weddings are way more work
Reality: Now, we’re not saying destination weddings are a piece of cake to organise, but there is often a fear that they are significantly more work. This isn’t really the case. These fears often arise due to a lack of knowledge about the local resources available, but a simple conversation with your destination wedding package manager will put you at ease.
Many hotels or planners offer wedding packages that streamline the planning process for destination weddings. These handy packages tie in venue choice, accommodation, transport, and even wedding coordination on the day. You may also find that some venues have packages that include all the suppliers as well, making photography, florals, and more part of the deal. Destination wedding packages are a great way to allow you to focus on the things that really require your focus.
Myth 3: You can’t get legally married overseas
Reality: You’ll find that each country has different rules and requirements for couples who wish to marry outside their home country. Some have stricter rules than others around being an actual resident or waiting periods before you can get married.
While this might seem like an issue, many couples choose a symbolic ceremony as part of their destination wedding, completing the legal side when they return home. Why not chat with your wedding planner or do a little research. This way you’ll be crystal clear on what you can and can’t do in terms of legally marrying abroad.
Myth 4: Destination weddings are more — or less — expensive
Reality: This all depends on where, who, and how of your destination wedding plans. Some countries have higher costs for certain services, but as with everywhere, do your research and you may just find that your dollar stretches further.
A good shout is comparing prices of accommodation and vendors, negotiating prices, and using local wedding suppliers as much as you can. This way, you’ll have a choice of services and be able to gauge the options available within your budget. Destination weddings tend to take place in destinations with clear peak seasons and low seasons. A shoulder season wedding between the two can often be the most affordable option.
Myth 5: We’ll have to pay for everyone’s accommodation
Reality: Don’t be fooled into thinking you’ll be paying for absolutely everything for your destination wedding. As long as you provide your guests with details of the location, varying accommodation options for different budgets, and other handy info in ample time, most will be more than happy to chip in their share.
You may decide that you’d like to subsidize the accommodation costs for some of your guests, or that you’ll cover the costs for just your wedding party. Or, you may decide to let everyone make their decision about attending based on what they can afford.
Myth 6: You can’t have a honeymoon after a destination wedding
Reality: Although many couples head off on their honeymoon shortly after the wedding, it’s often assumed that a honeymoon after a destination wedding will take place in the same location. While this might be the case for some, many couples choose to separate the two and explore a new region of the same country or fly to another destination immediately or a few months later.
This way, you can enjoy a fantastic time with your friends and family, before heading off on a completely new adventure with your partner.
Now that we have debunked these common destination wedding myths, you’ll be able to enjoy planning your big day with confidence. By addressing any concerns, working with experienced professionals, and making informed decisions, you can create a wedding celebration that is uniquely yours.
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