Does it matter if I'm not having dancing at my wedding?

I don't have a dance floor and my wedding is during the day :)

Question Asked: 9/11/2017

Wedding Date: 9/08/2018

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Phaze Entertainment Group

(0) · Melbourne

Posted: 11/07/2021

"If Ppls Don't Dance @Ur Wedding....It's Not A Big Thing......Some Ppls Choose 2 Dance & Some Don't.....

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Eclipse

(1) · Perth, Margaret River & Surrounds

Posted: 7/06/2019

It totally does not matter!! If you don't want to create that vibe, and you're not really into it, then don't do it.

I know for my own wedding we had a destination wedding in a garden. I really wanted to create a peaceful, secret garden vibe, so instead of partying and dancing, we created this other-world experience by just opting for a classical pianist perform in the middle of the garden. It really made us all feel like we were in a different world. (Our wedding was actually featured later in the wedding magazine, Together Journal, and you can get an idea here: www.togetherjournal.com/rachel-nathan-by-nita-meyer-photography).

My point is, it's all dependent on what kind of experience you want to create for both you and your guests. Think about what atmosphere you want people to be engulfed in and, that way, their behaviours – of whether to dance or drink or be quiet or cry or connect – will follow suit.

Hope that helps!

Regards,

Rachel Farag
Director & Musician | Eclipse
https://eclipseperth.com

Sofie Bozzetti Entertainment

(9) · Adelaide and surrounds | Regional SA

Posted: 15/11/2018

Hi there!

It doesn’t matter at all! It is your day. If the vision you have is absent of a DJ/Dancefloor, then run with it. 

Kind regards,

Sofie Bozzetti

Connor Reid Music

(12) · Cairns | Port Douglas and Surrounds

Posted: 26/02/2018

Not at all

my play list is extensive and I am happy for the couple to select their whole evenings entertainment as either background, trending or simply playing the bridal waltz.  Nothing is too much trouble

If dancing is required, I have a percussionist and other musicians to help dance the night away

Maria Chine (Master of Ceremonies)

(1) · Victoria Wide

Posted: 19/02/2018

As a Professional Master of Ceremonies, I get to nut over many concerns for couples which may not fall in with 'what the norm' may be.  The advice I give, it is your day - but remember the guests who have come both near and far to attend!  All those coming will be there for you both, so that is all that matters.  I would suggest to consider the end result and what your 'dream' would look like.  It can be as quaint as 'an afternoon high tea' party to 'an all out party atmosphere' - its all about your fit and who you are both as a couple.  The very least I would suggest - is background music, and most function centres will accommodate for this.

Feel free to contact me for further advice - not matter big or small.

Maria Chine (Professional Master of Ceremonies)

Mr Warmth

(5) · Perth, Kalamunda, South West

Posted: 13/02/2018

Nope, i have a selection of great acoustic songs that are perfect for chatting to. Just creating a lovely ambient setting is perfect for guests socialising and catching up.

Simple City Music

(8) · Central Coast / Hunter Valley/ Newcastle/ Sydney

Posted: 15/01/2018

Absolutley not. This is your special day and the vibe of the night is completly up to you. Simple City Music has a great range of music for all settings and are very confident that we can help bring your vision to life.

Mobile McWillo

(0) · South Australia

Posted: 5/01/2018

It doesn't matter not having dancing at your wedding but obviously you would still want music to set the atmosphere and people might tap their feet when mingling. People might be shy to dance, more so during the daytime, but as long as you and your guests enjoy the day that's all that matters.

Maria Pellicano

(4) · Melbourne and Surrounds

Posted: 19/12/2017

I didn't have dancing at my wedding but it was still a great celebration.  Beautiful music, great speeches and photography will be just as good to create great memories.  Sometimes people feel under pressure to have to dance.   Depending on the age group of your guests it may not be appropriate to encourage dancing.   Support the wedding celebration with easy listening , jazz music.. say a soloist and piano player.  If you want to know more this is the type of wedding we do.   All the best.  

Andy Mammers Entertainment

(10) · Whitsundays / Brisbane / Gold Coast / Sunshine Coast / QLD State Wide / Australia Wide

Posted: 18/12/2017

Not at all. Can make your experience less costly in some cases. 

Usually a trio or band is best for a dance set, but can become costly. If you are just having a cocktail party. Garden party, or sit down meal, a solo or duo is perfect and can really compliment the affair. 

You now just need to decide on style in style of music. Definitely choose someone that has a large repertoire. Some acts can get very boring when you say the word “acoustic”. This is not a wake, you want an upbeat vibe, just lower key with an acoustic feel. 

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