Am i in the wrong?

If this is about hens & bucks enquiries coming through Easy Weddings, it’s actually very common — and reasonable — for couples (or friends/family) to ask about hens/bucks even if they’re pregnant, older, shy, or not into the “wild” stereotype.

From a YFDC point of view:

• ?? Hens & bucks don’t have to be physical, raunchy, or high-impact
• ?? Pregnant participants can absolutely be accommodated (low-impact, chair options, fun choreography, confidence-based movement)
• ?? Easy Weddings couples often don’t know what’s possible — asking questions is normal
• ?? Education is part of the enquiry process, not a burden

You are not wrong for:

• Offering inclusive options
• Redirecting them to suitable packages
• Explaining modifications
• Suggesting alternatives (burlesque-lite, chair dance, musical theatre, confidence movement, fun group routines)