Do I need to have boutonnieres if my groom has a pocket square?

No, you don’t need to have boutonnieres if your groom is already wearing a pocket square—it’s completely up to personal preference and the overall look you’re going for.

Things to Consider:

• A pocket square is a classic, polished alternative to a boutonniere, especially for a clean, modern look.
• If you love the idea of flowers but don’t want both, you could incorporate florals in other ways, like in the wedding décor or bouquet.
• If your wedding has a more traditional or romantic feel, a boutonniere can add a soft, elegant touch.
• Some grooms choose to wear both, but in that case, the boutonniere should be small and subtle so it doesn’t overpower the pocket square.

When to Skip the Boutonniere:

• If your groom prefers a minimalist or sleek look.
• If your suit fabric is lightweight or delicate, and you want to avoid pinning it.
• If a boutonniere doesn’t fit the overall wedding style or colour scheme.

Either choice is perfectly fine, as long as your groom feels confident and comfortable in his wedding look.

If you need help styling the perfect suit, feel free to reach out at hello@modusoperandisydney.com.au—we’d love to assist!

Hi 

Depending on the size of  the boutonnieres in contrast to the suit as to whether both will work. I always beleive the boutonnieres are like the ladies 'touch' on the mens outfits, a little more personal than a pocket square.

Best wishes

Black tie by Xavier

Thank you for asking this very popular qusetion. 

Our rule of thumb is; One or the other, never both.

The reason for this rule is due to balancing in photo's. THe flower, the square and the tie all direct the viewers eyes towards something. If you have both, the focus becomes the pocket, as the balance shifts. If you have one or the other, the focus is "lifted" to the grooms face.

As a side note, we usually recommend the boutonnieres over the pocket squares, as the floral accoutrements tend to match better with the overall bridal theme. That said, remember, it's your wedding, and you are styling it to look how you want it to look. Pocket squares can be better for more vintage finishes/retro looks over boutonnieres.

I hope this information helps.

Matthew @ Brittons - Perth

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