I only want candid

But should we get some couple shots? Posing makes me feel awkward.

Question Asked: 31/10/2025

Wedding Date: 9/08/2018

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Shots By Jez

(3) · Melbourne & Surrounding Areas

Posted: 23/11/2025

Its really up 2 what you and your parter are afer.  As a wedding photographer, we capture what you want us to capture.  I would always recommend a a few portraits of your couple as well as family, but im also a HUGE believer that candid shots are the most special.

Its up 2 us as wedding photograpghers to be sure to capture theese candid shots :D 

Hope this helsp! 
Jez

www.shotsbyjez.com

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Lumen Weddings

(8) · Gold Coast / Tweed Heads

Posted: 17/11/2025

laughter, the quiet glances. That natural, documentary style is lovely, but what really makes the difference is a photographer who knows how to move through your day, joining in when needed and stepping back when the moment should just happen.

There will always be parts of the day that are a bit more structured, whether it’s family photos or your couple portraits, and the trick is finding someone who can make these feel relaxed and natural. Someone who knows the right prompts and gentle guidance so you can forget the camera and just enjoy being yourselves. Those are the shots that make people look at their gallery and feel it’s really them, every single time.

Caroline Lins

www.lumenweddings.com.au

DK Photography

(16) · Perth

Posted: 1/11/2025

That sounds perfect! I’m all for candid photos — they’re the best way to capture those real, authentic moments that tell your story just as it happens. You can leave the posing to me; I’ll guide you naturally when needed so everything still flows beautifully.

Eclipse Media Photography

(16) · All Victoria - Melbourne, Yarra Valley, Mornington Peninsula, Geelong, Ballarat, Dandenong Ranges

Posted: 1/11/2025

Totally get that, most of my couples feel the same! My posing style is super natural and candid, so nothing stiff or awkward. I’ll just give you little prompts that get you laughing or interacting naturally (like walking together, laughing, or holding hands), so the photos still look relaxed and genuine.

We’ll grab a few couple shots, but they’ll still feel like “you,” not posed at all.

Tonita Photo & Video

(53) · All areas of Perth - Albany to Port Hedland!

Posted: 1/11/2025

Thats a great question!

We work with a number of couples who feel this way lovely, its all very understandable and very common and its our job to help the whole process along by making you feel as comy as possible

We do a mixture of candid plus those 'Mantle Piece' photos (not sure anyone has a mantle piece anymore) But the ones you would want to have framed and hung on the wall, but candid is always the best, a lot more natural with you two ineracting as you usually would 

Have a chat with Anita, she is wonderful and will make you feel at ease right away :)

Her number is 0402 625 335

Whimsy & Wonder Photography Port Stephens

(4) · Port Stephens, Hunter Valley, Central Coast, Mid North Coast, Newcastle

Posted: 1/11/2025

Hey there, 

It can absolutely feel overwhelming when taking photos. 

I would mention that you do want photos together however you want them to be more candid and have the moments created.
For example, maybe your future spouse whispers in your ear and then you begin laughing. Ask your photographer to be relaxed and calm and have gentle guidance. 

I hope that helps! 

Em Whalan 

Whimsy & Wonder Photography 

Veri Photography - QLD

(1) · Brisbane | Gold Coast | Byron Bay | Sunshine Coast | Queensland

Posted: 1/11/2025

You can still look into the camera, be candid and the authentic you, it's our photographer's job to bring that out.

As a wedding photographer, we have an obligation to take some formal portraits of your family and the bridal party at the wedding too. It is for keepsake, some may have special meaning 20 years later. 

Ali-Kate Photography

(0) · Mornington Peninsula

Posted: 1/11/2025

Hello, 

we can definitely get candid couple photos 

Mores Weddings

(9) · Brisbane

Posted: 31/10/2025

Hey there!

Candid, authentic and fleeting moments of connection are ALWAYS top of everyone's list - that gorgeous documentary style is something you will get with many photographers.

In my experience, the REAL thing to keep an eye out for is a photographer who knows when to float back and get those shots, and build connections with people so they can float in when a bit of direction is needed. There is generally always a time of your day when there are some more 'structured' photos - whether it's the family shots your parents, aunties and nannas crave OR during your couple shots.

The TRICK is to pick someone who 'makes the camera disappear' during these moments - who knows what prompts, what activities and what YOU both need to forget the shutter button and be your genuine selves - it's THESE shots that makes everyone smile when they see their gallery - a collection of moments that are truly you.

Nathan

www.moresweddings.com.au

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