my fiance hates wearing rings is there a male alternative

Totally understandable! A lot of men aren’t used to wearing rings at first, but many actually get used to it quickly or choose to wear it only for special occasions.

There are some great low-key options that might surprise your fiancé! For example, tantalum is a popular choice . It’s a very lightweight metal, with a smooth matte finish and a modern dark grey (almost black) colour. Super comfortable and subtle.

He might just need to try a few styles on in person, many men end up finding something they like once they feel the fit and weight. A visit to a showroom could be a good idea, no pressure, just to see what feels right. 

And of course, if he still prefers not to wear one daily, you could agree on wearing it just for special events or photos. There’s no one-size-fits-all, but there are lots of flexible ways to keep that symbolic piece in the picture. ??