is there any way to uninvite a friend i invited a long time ago, but have since fallen out with?

A "Save the Date" is not a contract.

Many life events can occur between sending out a save the date and the formal invitation.

If you and your friend have had a falling out, then hopefully she / he is savvy enough to realise that they won't be getting an invitation to the wedding. If you think they're still expecting an invite, then the best thing to do is to contact them privately and explain the situation, even if it's an uncomfortable thing to do.

I really hope this works out for you. Let us know how it goes!

Cheers,

Lava @LavaStationery

Hi there,

This is going to be an awkward situation no matter how you handle it. Not sending her an invite is a subtle approach, that should get your point across, you may just need to be prepared for her to contact you about not getting an invite. When and if she does, you just need to be honest.

Hope this helps and good luck!

lala xo