How do I explain that I want a wishing well?

Hey there,

Alot of brides and grooms are opting for a wishing well as it's always better than getting 7 or 8 dinner sets! ( I know this from personal experience!)  and I think most people are more than happy to gift this way. I think including a line in your invite or having a seperate card saying something to the effect, " A note about gifts" - Your presence is the biggest gift of all however if you wish to help us celebrate with a gift, contribute to our wishing well'. Yes, I know it rhymes but its not mushy :D 

All the very best to you and htb. God bless

Andrea
My Craftie Creations

Hi there! 

I have found that the best way to ask for a gift of money, is to write one sentence along these lines:

"There will be a wishing well at the reception for those who wish to congratulate the couple in this way."

It's direct without the BS, but at the same time not demanding. It also leaves it open for guests who prefer traditional gifting to buy you a gift, but savvy guests will understand what it means straight away.

Please let me know if I can help you with other wedding related questions!

Cheers,

Lava @LavaStationery :)

Hello!

For wishing wells you can include a beautifully worded wishing well card in with your invitation to advise guests that you are having a wishing well. 

I generally also suggest that the wording implies the option for the guest to still give you and hubby-to-be a gift if they prefer, as there are some old fashioned guests who may prefer to buy the newlyweds a physical gift.

I hope this assists! :)

Cat x