What wedding traditions are people still having?

There are trends that come and go. I suggest to couple to look at what is possible and pick what they think suits them. What is trendy can become boring very quickly if every wedding you go to is doing it. In the end, it's what you want that counts. A tradition is only important if it has meaning. Give it meaning by making it yours.

Almost every bride in my wonderful years as a celebrant, has included the timeless tradition of 'something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue'. But  the 'blue' is generally no longer the garter!  Stunning blue heels, or a pair of statement sapphire drop earrings have been breathtaking alternatives.

I advise and assist couples to create new elements to their ceremony with a traditional twist.  The hand holding or hand-fasting ritual is very special - especially if the ribbon, cord or wrap encompasses a family tradition.  For example, it may be a ribbon in the Scottish groom or bride's family tartan.  Or made up of ties from a father or grandfather that has passed.  Other special memories that creates a beautiful tradition is the chair reserved for a family member - in loving memory.  The lighting of a memorial candle has also become a heartfelt tradition since the pandemic.

Another element that has become really popular and which I encourage if it fits the love story and personalities of the couple, is the Treasure Chest or Time Capsule.  Especially if couples would rather not read out their personal vows in front of all their guests.  They love the idea of saying their vows privately to each other the night before the wedding, and then placing them in the Chest during the ceremony, together with a special bottle of their preferred drink, to open on their First Anniversary.  What a beautiful memory to re-live.

Although many Brides love Mum or Dad, or both, walk them down the aisle, the words 'Giving Away' are not that popular anymore.  The new take on this old and seemingly timeless tradition which acknowledges the parents role in a special way, is now 'Who brings' and is directed at both parents if they are present. 

I find a lot of brides are still getting walked down the aisle by either their father or a family members. Also a lot of brides are taking on their husbands names as well. They all seem

to like to follow the traditional wedding format.

From my vast experience as a Celebrant, I have found that every wedding is so  different.  People are tending to choose smaller / medium style weddings.  For family from overseas and interstate many couples are opting for Zoom set up prior to the wedding. 
Personalised vows are generally included, as well as Symbolisms.  Get in touch and I will be happy to guide you further. 
cheers  Rosemary. 

Some of the wedding traditions that couples seem to be having are:

* Wine Box Ritual

* Giving away of bride

* Swapping Rings

* Taking on the mans name with announcing as husband and wife

* Celtic Knot tying

* Cake cutting

* First dance

* Wishing Well