I'm a chilled bride. Is that a bad thing?
I just don't need any stress, and I don't think the wedding is as important as the marriage. Don't get me wrong, is IS important and I have my gorgeous dress and venue, and all of that, but do I really need to be going crazy for months in the lead up, worrying?
Question Asked: 28/11/2017
Wedding Date: 9/08/2018
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(4) · Newcastle, Hunter Valley, Southern Highlands & Surrounding Areas
Posted: 31/01/2018
Chilled is good, as long as you have a warm heart!
No ! nothing wrong with that at all.
But I would still double check everything just to amke sure it is all going as planned
(5) · Brisbane & Surroundings / Gold Coast/ Sunshine Coast / Toowoomba
Posted: 8/12/2017
This is not a bad thing.
It shows you are relaxed in your decisions and you will certainly enjoy and remember your special day.
If things are not left till the last minute there is no reason to be stressed.
I try to help my couples to be organised so there is less to stress about.
No way #bridechilla is the new buzzword. Why stress!!! It's all about fun, celebrating and not sweating the small stuff. I mean, the marriage is the most important bit, and trust us, we got that bit!!
Everyone has different ways of copying in many varying situations including weddings. Don't judge yourself on how you should be handling youself compared to everyone else. Remember it is your special day, it is about you and your partner having a day full of happiness and lifetime memories.It's not to be a sombre day, enjoy youselves and cease the moment.If for some reason on the day it doesn't go to plan,don't let that upset your day instead be lighthearted and still enjoy yourselves.
(23) · Echuca/Moama, Shepparton, Bendigo, Deniliquin, and surrounding areas
Posted: 1/12/2017
You have the best attitude of all! Marraige is about your life together and that is the most important thing. Your wedding is a celebration leading you into the marriage
It sounds like you are going to enjoy your day and not stress over the little things....that is wonderful! :)
Regards
Robyn Rodda
Hi, That's fantastic if you are chilled and not stressing. I am sure from the sound of it you are super organised and that is what matters. Talk to your Celebrant and make sure all the legals are taken care of then everything will fall into place and if something does get forgotten don't worry about it, no one will notice but YOU WILL BE MARRIED so it won't matter.
Have a fantastic wedding day.
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(2) · Perth, Rockingham, Bunbury, Margaret River, Mandurah, Peel Region
Posted: 29/11/2017
It's not such a bad thing to be chilled, as long as you're organised and have everything in place, then you can sit back and cruise into your wedding day.
A little worry is ok, because you have to plan and think about the 'what if', however, you don't want to be too worried that you miss out on enjoying one of the most memorable moments in life, then again you don't want to overlook something altogether.
Just stay organised and on top of things and you'll enjoy your day. Hope everything turns out bombastically for you, on your wedding day!
(4) · Mornington Peninsula and surrounds | Melbourne and surrounds
Posted: 29/11/2017
Yes this is a very bad thing child marriage is illegal in Australia if you are being forced into marriage you should contact the Police on 000 or Child Services on 1300 650 172 someone can help you
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No it's not, most brides are chilled and non stressed if they have the trust in their celebrant to make the day perfect.