Wonder Weddings By Karen

Of course! In fact, I encourage it BUT… there’s always a but…by law, there is one sentence that you both need to say in front of me and your witnesses to be considered married. And this is it:

“I ask everyone here today, to witness that I [insert full name] take you [insert your partner’s full name] to be my lawful husband/wife.

And that’s it. After you’ve said those words, in the eyes of the law, you’re hitched!

Most people like to make a few more promises. These can be anything you like! Anything! I have a DIY Vows worksheet to help you write your own as well as lots of examples that you can copy and paste. Pinterest also has lots of wedding vows ideas, but I think the ones you write from your heart are the best!

I strongly encourage you to have one. Even with the smallest of weddings, it’s good for everyone’s peace of mind to do a quick run through of what will happen on the day. A rehearsal is included in my fee.

I like to meet at the venue, if possible, to practise where everyone will stand. We will also do a run through of the Bridal Processional (the arrival) including the handover of the Bride to the Bridegroom (if you’re doing that), and any special rituals or readings. I like to run through the signing of the Register to ensure that all this goes smoothly, and the Bridal Recessional (the leaving).

This usually takes about 30 minutes, and is best done the day before when you’ve got all your bridal party together. Bring your parents along too and anyone else who will be involved in the ceremony. Don’t worry, I won’t reveal any of the love story! When we’re done, it’s a good opportunity fo you to take everyone out for dinner (known as the Rehearsal Dinner – who would’ve thought?)

I’ll give you a Rehearsal Tips sheet with lots of good suggestions to ensure that your wedding day goes smoothly.

Nothing – just each other. The first meeting is where you check me out to see if I’m the celebrant for you, and where I check you out to make sure that you are eligible to get married, and this takes about 5 minutes! For the remaining time, I go through what’s involved in getting married, what you ID you need to bring to lodge your NOIM, and answer any questions you may have about getting married. I’ve been there, and can take you through step-by-step what’s involved. I leave nothing to chance.

But if after doing your research, you’ve already decided that you want a Wonder Wedding then please bring along your ID (see above) so we can lodge the NOIM and get the ball rolling!

Anywhere! I’m authorised to solemnise marriages in Australia, so that means I can marry you from Christmas Island to Antarctica, and anywhere in between. If you have your heart set on having a wedding ceremony overseas, talk to me about how I can marry you legally in Australia beforehand, and perform a ceremony for your guests.

I’ve got an awesome spreadsheet of venues in and around the ACT to have your wedding. Some are suitable for the reception too, and many are free! I’m more than happy to give you suggestions of some great places to get married.