Wedding DJ - Should you Hire a Wedding DJ?

If the mention of a wedding DJ conjures up images of drunken couples swaying to cheesy love songs, or your guests being asked to form a conga line around the flashing disco lights, you are probably planning to hire a wedding band instead. Before you rule out a wedding DJ, however, bear in mind that these days DJs are considered artists in their own right, and there are plenty of talented DJs around that specialize in creating just the right atmosphere for your wedding.

Advantages of a wedding DJ

• A wedding DJ, even a top end one, will usually cost less than a live band
• Your DJ can announce the important events of your reception such as your first dance
• Wedding DJs will always have a more varied repertoire than the most versatile band
• A DJ will take up less space in your reception venue than a live band
• A wedding DJ will usually be more flexible and able to respond to the requests of your guests than a wedding band

Common wedding DJ mistakes to avoid

The music played at your wedding reception will have a huge impact on how your guests remember it, so you want to be sure you get it just right. Many couples hire a wedding DJ with a good reputation, and just expect them to get on with it, but if you want the perfect reception, you do have to give your DJ something to work with.

Don’t be tempted to provide your DJ with a detailed play list and expect them to stick to it from start to finish. Part of your wedding DJ’s job is to respond to the mood and tempo of your reception and play tunes that will keep the party going, so you need to let them have the freedom to do this.

You can, however, provide a list of songs you would like to be played at some point during the reception; this will give your DJ a good idea of the style of music you are looking for. You can also supply them with a ‘do not play’ list if there are songs you really hate, or tunes that have bad associations for you which might detract from your big day.

Try to see your wedding DJ in action before you hire them to get an idea of their performance style, and how much they engage with their audience. Meet with your DJ and explain how much you want them to talk to your guests. Do you just want them to play tunes, or do you want them to act as master of ceremonies, announcing the various dances, the cake cutting, and your departure? Be clear about what you expect from your wedding DJ, and if they aren’t willing to tailor their act to your requests, you should look for another performer.

Personalize your wedding with your wedding DJ

A really great wedding DJ can be a great asset on your big day, and can work with you to play suitable music for every element of your wedding. Don’t feel you have to limit the music to after dinner when everyone is dancing; you can have a DJ playing instrumental music throughout the drinks reception and dinner as well. You can choose specific songs to announce your arrival and to introduce the various speeches, and you can even change the music style and tempo from one dinner course to the next.